Monday, June 22, 2009

When Beauties Fumble

I super love pageants!

I lurve the thrill of choosing a bet, the cheering and the jeering that come with it, and the elation when your "definition of beauty" conquers the (coronation) night.

But admit it, we lurve it more when beauties fumble, 'coz it only makes them as ordinary as us, ayt?

Here are some classic Q&A moments in local and international pageants.


Janina San Miguel at the Bb. Pilipinas 2008 Pageant


Who could ever forget Janina San Miguel who won the Binibining Pilipinas-World title despite her boo-boo? She made the headlines in all local news and became a celebrity even after she was dethroned, I mean replaced, by Danielle Castaño as rep to Ms. World 2008.

But our dear Janina was not the original Fumble Queen. Before her was this girl...


Jeannie Anderson at the Bb. Pilipinas 2001 (?) Pageant



And another gorgeous lady who lost a crown for her answer...


Marie Ann Umali at the Binibining Pilipinas 2007 Pageant


She was a frontrunner then, expected to run away with the Bb. Pilipinas-Universe title with her undeniable beauty of face and body but poof! She returned to the Bb. stage this year and finally snatched the Bb. Pilipinas World title.

But you see, it could have been the language that did it for the girls. Let's accept it hon, English is not our native tongue. But how would you account this one for?


Miss South Carolina Caitlin Upton at the Miss Teen USA 2007 Pageant


Haha! Did you get confucious, I mean confused? Wait till you watch this.


Giosue Cozzarelli at the Miss Panama 2009 Pageant


Wednesday, May 6, 2009

See The Happy Moron

See the happy moron,
He doesn't give a damn.
I wish I were a moron,
--My God! Perhaps I am!

by Dorothy Parker



I am the happy moron,
I don't give a damn.
You wish you were a moron,
--My God, you are and more moronic than I am!

by the Ditzy Momma

Wednesday, April 22, 2009

The Restless Captain

(This appeared on the cover story of the Voice of Business Magazine for the 2nd quarter of 2008. It is my first published inspirational story, for print, that is.)

 

Each successful man owns a unique story and traversed an exceptional path to success. And though most of the time these stories and paths intersect, or even converge at one time, life can attest that there is no fixed formula for success.


While the usual success story tells of a man (or a woman) who rose from rags to riches with sheer determination and strong sense of responsibility, this story tells of a man whose younger days were relished on skipping classes and the usual activities of restless teenagers.


Edgardo Lacson, or simply Ed to his friends, was born in Manila to a Caviteño father and an Ilocano mother. He grew up in Makati where his growing up days were spent playing with street children and school friends alike. Soaked up in the culture of the streets, he was developed into a man we could unquestionably call “street smart.”


Restless and Street Smart


The colorful childhood of Ed was filled with adventures and misadventures. While at De La Salle College, Taft, he and his school friends would keep close watch of their allowable absences in each subject so they could maximize their time cutting classes or make bulakbol, as he fondly calls it. It was typified with occasional round trips to Baguio that would usually commence in the morning and end in the evening. And whenever asked where he came from, he could easily pull off with his library alibi.


He dreamt of being a businessman or a medical doctor as a child. When it was time to go to college, his Certified Public Accountant father talked him out of taking up a medical course as it would take him longer to study and would be costly on his parents’ side. He never regretted the decision though as it was in a review class for the CPA Board Exam where he met his wife, Mila.


Ed might have been a typical teenager but something special separated him from the rest. While his classmates talked of working and living abroad, his young mind was decided on staying in the Philippines because he was happy and content with his life in the country.


If there is one thing that would primarily describe his childhood, it would be “restless.” He could not sit behind a desk for a long time or stay for a prolonged period in one place, much like the Marvel action heroes he admired those days. It might not have been a good sign for a young boy who was just starting to develop traits that would eventually spell his future. But this restlessness did not serve as a stumbling block to him but instead, spurred him forward to always go for more.


Fuelling Corporate Success


The restlessness did not actually go away. It even became more apparent when he was in the corporate world. While the Purchasing Manager of the Philippine National Oil Company (now Petron Corporation), he felt the lack of challenge and wanted movement because the position did not have a ladder of progress. He asked and got transferred to another, yet bigger department. After 2 years in his new job, he felt the desire to change his career from corporate to entrepreneural.


Call it destiny but this one crucial decision led Ed to a totally different path—the realization of his childhood dream. A month before resigning, he was asked by his former boss to audit a purchase of two tankers in Japan. After finalizing the deal, he came back to the Philippines without a formal audit report. When asked where his report was, he just said that he “saw two ships that were delivered.” And that, according to him, ended his auditing career.  It was at this time that he met a Japanese who was looking for a local partner in the Philippines and together, they formed a trading company that buys and sells marine equipment.


Before long, he recognized the potential of owning and operating his own tanker fleet after buying and selling several excellent ships.


As he aptly puts, “business presents unlimited opportunities but you have to stay ahead before a product reaches its maturity.” More ideas came and more opportunities knocked and before he knew it, he has already expanded his business from marine trading, coastal shipping, and ship broking to environment management, real estate, information technology, and food.


Embarking on a ‘Jolli’ World


Creative ideas just pop up anytime for Ed. Take for example the most-loved food outlet for Makati workers—the jolli-jeep. Upon strolling along Makati one time, he realized that the Makati Central Business District was like Wall Street on the inside yet like Divisoria on the outside owing to the food stores in dilapidated fieras and jeepneys that surrounded the modern buildings. He then designed food stalls that would suit the corporate image of Makati but would remain economical for employees, thus, the metrostore was born. He bidded and won the franchise to operate the chain of mobile stores with a design appropriate to a financial district. Now, Makati enjoys pocket-friendly meals from tax-paying stores with certified healthy and uniformed crews. This is one legacy that he is happy to have given his beloved Makati.


He says that the “formula for a successful business is 80% opportunity, that is being there at the right moment, and the rest is luck.” Of course, he also emphasizes the importance of having good business partners who share the same vision and business ethics. In any venture, he followed a roadmap, with profit as the last factor to consider.


Daring the Entrepreneurial Challenge


He advises would-be businessmen not to be scared of doing something on their own. He adds that it is now time to start the entrepreneurial revolution, for Filipinos to aim beyond succeeding in the corporate world. He challenges the young to “dare to dream what they dare to do” just like what he did. “The risks are higher, but the rewards are very satisfying,” he adds.


With all these accomplishments, Ed just shrugs off allusions to his success as such accolades are best left during one’s eulogy. He quips that it is enough for him that he is comfortable for what he is and what he has done so far.


Around companies


Ed lives the good life because of his love for company. He likes being with people and avoids being alone. Nevertheless, he avoids cocktail parties as he view it as something superficial, with people making conversations without really giving attention to the other person.


Aside from his business ventures, he keeps his hands full with other responsibilities. He used to be the spokesperson of the Maritime Party, the political grouping of 32 maritime federations and the Philippine Inter-island Shipping Association, a squadron commander holding the rank of Captain in the Philippine Coast Guard Auxiliary, and the Chairman and one of the founders of AWARE, a foundation that provides free pre-departure orientation seminars to Filipino overseas workers.


His time might be used up by his many responsibilities but he makes sure to spend time with his wife, children, and grandchildren. He loves spending his free time golfing and walking with his wife for an hour or two. He is dearly fond of his six grandchildren and makes sure that the whole family spends time together every year. It is what prompted the yearly month-long family reunion in Las Vegas, USA.


PCCI’s New Captain


Now, his ship is venturing into another shore. He is entering into another, yet greater challenge—taking the helm of the Philippine Chamber of Commerce and Industry as President.


In the years that he has been with PCCI as Vice President for Environment and Executive Vice President, he has come to recognize the brand of PCCI leadership which he intends to adopt. It is Participative, Consultative, Consensual, and Informative.


He relates that the word advocacy came from the Latin word advocatus which means to call upon and Spanish avogado. PCCI has been doing advocacy for more than a century and at some point, PCCI might walk the talk to prove the validity of it advocacies.


Carrying the Momentum


Ed is convinced that the momentum of the PCCI as an institution is like a pendulum that has gone so far on one side due to the efficiency of the previous presidents that if it swings on the other side, the momentum would carry him until the end of his term. But that would be the height of laziness and a total lack of vision on his part. He plans to conduct a visioning and planning session with his Board to develop a workplan and erect milestones during his term.


He urges the PCCI family to hold his hand and journey with him in this quest. As the shipping and logistics magnate, and now President of the PCCI, eloquently puts it, “The presidency of PCCI is too big a job to be handled by one man.”

Friday, April 17, 2009

PCCI and Me

(Wrote this essay for a workshop done for the Advocacy group of PCCI. I thought it would be nice to post it here. ^_^)

Me and the Profundity of my Work Life


I woke up early today. That is, earlier than the usual, to brave the impending mob at the MRT and not be late for work. It has been hell going to PCCI office since the start of the New Year. The construction of the train central terminal over at North Avenue has driven bus and cab-riding citizens to the MRT stations to avoid a paralyzed traffic.


Not a day passes without any drama at the station. I remember one time I got not only one but several “hair-slapping” from a lady who was too conscious (or too irritated) of her hair that she kept on flipping it back with her hand, smacking me on the face. Well, she got a good telling off from me.


MRT introduces me to different kinds of people every day. There’s the “deadma” people who feigns sleep whenever an old woman or a pregnant lady is standing near them so they would not be forced to offer their seats and the classic “manyak” type who loves the pushing and the congestion of fellow passengers as he could easily pass up taking advantage of the ladies as accidents. MRT has not spared my feet from deadly stilettos and my stilettos from being caught in platform gaps.


But despite all these, there’s no denying my love for MRT. It has not just made my life easier; it has already become part of my lifestyle.


This is the same case I have with PCCI. Its environment may not be perfect, glazed with not-so-good issues here and there, but it has found a cozy place in my heart and my life. There are times I am confronted with hair-slapping moments and I could not help but be swept by the intensity of the moment and give out a lashing. But the next day, anger leaves and the hilarity of the moment sets in. And you realize that the next time, you should never shout at the hair-slapper. Just push her off the platform onto the railwayJ.


Kidding aside, PCCI has given me the satisfaction I have been looking for in a job—I get to be creative and at the same time, do things that are beyond what I perceive I can do. Of course, the “deadma” and all the other sinister characters would not be gone, but I would not let them get the better of me. I would continue to work and live as I would continue to ride the MRT. For all it’s worth, both experiences have made me better and will continue to mold to a better person.


Such is the profundity of my relationship with the MRT and PCCI. J

The Ditzy Momma's Boy

Here's my most precious one. I love him to bits and you'll know why when you get to see this vid.



Have a happy weekend! ^_^

Wednesday, March 11, 2009

Are you giving up? Then, watch this.

Just wanna share this very inspirational video. It made me cry.

Monday, February 2, 2009

The Lost Generation

This is heart-rending. If only we see things on the reverse, then a better world awaits us.




Happy February everyone! Let love reign in the love month ^_^

Wednesday, January 28, 2009

Vegetarians have better sex?!

Do you agree?





My besfren would surely agree. Haha!

Monday, January 19, 2009

Is your family the one?

Twenty Twenty Television is currently working on the second series of a very popular BBC documentary looking at parenting attitudes across the world.

The programme features two British teenagers who are sent to live with a role model family abroad, to experience life in their country and under their rules. In the last series, the BBC sent indulged teenagers from the UK to live with role model families over the world--from Jamaica to India, Ghana to South Africa--and they are now looking for host families in the Philippines to take part. The first series was a huge success, as they were able to cast parents who not only felt passionately about instilling discipline and respect in their own children, but felt that their values could also help teenagers who did not benefit from the same moral guidance at home.

Twenty Twenty and BBC are looking for professional conservative Filipino families (with children aged 13-17), who would be willing to accommodate two teenagers for one week and  instill in them the values and morality they demand of their own children.  The British teens will be expected to attend school, church, complete homework and help with household chores; they will not be guests in the house but new members of the family.

Twenty Twenty Television www.twentytwenty.tv is one of the UK’s leading independent production companies with a reputation for producing intelligent and award-winning programmes.

Please feel free to contact me at mc_fleurry@yahoo.com or fleur.nadua@philippinechamber.com or 896-4549 local 112 if you are a member a "role model" family or if you know just the family that Twenty Twenty and BBC are looking for. Or better yet, contact:

Donnovan Harris
CASTING PRODUCER
Twenty Twenty Television
+44 207 284 2020
Grand Union House
20 Kentish Town Road
LONDON
NW1 9NX
www.twentytwenty.tv